a bully - quotes and descriptions to inspire creative writing
We protect and counsel the victim of the bully as our first and most important priority, yet also seek to counsel and solve the stress-puzzle of the bully.
A bully is a person with developmental damage to their prefrontal cortex - they didn't develop sufficient empathy and self control.
Bullying is a symptom of stress in a brain not mature enough to disperse it in a healthy way. Thus we need to treat the cause - the stress - rather than keep on endlessly addressing symptoms in infinite ways.
The hero takes the punch for a friend when they could easily step aside; the bully throws the punch they could easily choose to make an open hand of friendship. Decide who you are.
Humans are a mammal that learns best from role modelling - observe, practice, imitate, master. Thus how we adults deal with stress as (the cause of bullying) will have the greatest impact on how youth and children deal with it. To make a new more positive cycle of behaviour, we have to change our own instead of preach.