A problem teenager has problems. They are as a weather system fluctuating between storms and sunshine - from brilliant sunny rays to sleet, to cold wind and back to sunshine, only for the cycle to repeat. They have no idea when their weather will change, and so they need an adult who has learned how to become "a calm sky." That is the problem of most teenagers... lack of access to a calm sky that lets them blow out these wintry weathers, creating room for their inner sun to break through once more. So, if you have a problem teenager... be the solution... be the sky... it will cost you... but that is part of what being an adult is all about.