I am the definition of feminine because I am female, yet another woman may be very different. We each make our own definition, we shape the word and not the other way around. We cannot live our lives struggling to fit into the cookie cutter shapes laid down in culture and literature, feeling anxious about whether we are "right" or whether we "fit." There is so much beauty in the uniqueness of the individual. We define ourselves, we define our ways to be; words are our slaves not our masters. Well spun they bring clarity to concepts, stronger bonds and increased hope. There are as many definitions of "feminine" as there are female minds.