obsessing over a guy - quotes and descriptions to inspire creative writing
Obsessing over a guy has been a way of life since puberty, since I first glanced at a new boy in school and felt my heart skip a beat. You learn to ignore and screen out most of that. There are a lot of cute men in the world, thank God. However, when a guy hits every base, when he's everything you could have ever dreamed of and more, when you see his flaws and you realise that you can roll with them, that they can actually make it better too... more full bodied... then, my friend, you are sunk in the best way possible. There is no return ticket. This is one way. You are in love with him. You will always be in love with him. Anyone else would be a pale shadow of this and you'd rather be alone than suffer the comparison. Part of love is obsessing over your man. So much of self determination in these matters is an illusion, so pray that your match was made in heaven.
The kind of obsessing over a guy that sparks fantasy and passion is divine. These dreams are the cocktails of my brain, both shaken and stirred.
I'm always obsessing over a guy, that's my m.o. This time it's different though. I can't move on. He's it. Him or no-one. And though I've felt that way before, this time there are no alternatives, no plan B. God, I always had a plan B. Now everyone else gone and it's us or being alone. So beautiful. So scary. So real.
If you have a plan B, you aren't obsessing over a guy in the right way. So move on and let him do the same. Yet if he is the only one in focus, in colour, with audio and aroma... then go with it. Obsession and passion are vital for the kind of love that is eternally sweet.