General

There is good, there is evil, there is noble dark. Noble dark is a form of love, it is the defence and protect aspect. So when we fight, we are good knights, every time.

General

Every good thing comes from love, fighting especially. For how can we navigate which battles to take on if aren't seeing with the light of the heart?

General

This fight has been a choreographed dance of destruction for so long, tearing us where we need to heal. The time has come for some new moves. The time as come to use empathy instead of an armoury. It's time to let folks say the truths that have tortured them so that a new and better future can emerge.

General

In the love-nexus we fight from true honour, for the sake of building peace and eradicating the scourge of evil that brings so much suffering. And there are so many nuanced ways to fight.

General

Fight for love, fight for peace, fight for an end of suffering, and when comes to day you pass on, you'll be proud of how you became an angel warrior.

General

I feel the tension and hear the intensity in his tone. There's a great deal of emotion behind these words he is speaking. And then I do something new; I do a pre-mortem. Instead of waiting for a disaster to unfold and then stress of the relationship post-mortem in days, weeks or maybe years to come, I calm myself and think of where my usual responses take us at these times. All I can do is try to make a new and hopefully better choice and see what unfolds. So instead of being defensive I say I can accept and understand how he came to feel this way, that in the same situation I would feel it too. He needs validation of his emotions, not some solution or apology. And things do go different, not magical fairytale-esque, but there is some healing and more damage is prevented. I'm gonna get to grips with this pre-mortem idea, apparently I can steer our lives in a better direction.